Tag: BDSM Lifestyle
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Years of Experience
We’ve all seen shitty drivers, right? Of course, we have.They should have passed a test for their license, they know ‘most’ of the rules. They know how to turn (even if most do it without a turn signal), back up, play their favorite song, park (questionable), and fill up the gas tank (most at least).…
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The Plug
I’m the plug. For every demon I ever tried to outrun. I quit running. Now I keep them fed. They come to me hollow-eyed and hungry, mouths open, needing something wicked to chew on—and I give it to them. Sadism in a syringe.Degradation wrapped in lace.Rage with a ribbon.Shame on tap like fine wine. I…
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The Importance of Words: The Power of Asking
Let’s be clear about something: Dominants are not mind readers. We don’t have a crystal ball that tells us exactly what you need, what you want, or how far you want to go. You can’t expect us to always guess. You have to use your words. I tell my submissives all the time: “Use your…
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Tide of Ruin
It’s five in the morning,and the air is sharp, like the edge of My blade before the first cut.I’m awake,thinking about you—about how I want to lap at your cunt the way the North Atlantic lashes the cliffs of Ireland.Not to soothe.To punish.To erode.To claim. Not a kiss.A reckoning. I’m not here for romance.I’m here…
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Rules for Beginning Dominants: No Bullshit Allowed
Finding your footing as a Dominant isn’t a walk in the park. I’ve seen too many well-meaning people crash and burn—rushing, faking it, or missing the basics. If you want a real connection, here are the non-negotiables. Rule #1: Don’t be a jerk.Confidence isn’t shouting louder or barking orders. It’s about being solid, grounded, and…
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No Mask, No Games
BDSM isn’t about pretending—it’s about revealing.We live in a world that rewards masks. Where people curate personalities like outfits, swapping them out for work, for family, for lovers, for likes. But in this space—in this lifestyle—the mask doesn’t serve you. It suffocates you. And sooner or later, the real you has to breathe. This lifestyle…
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Ollie Ollie Oxen Free
“Ollie Ollie Oxen Free.” It’s something we used to yell as kids during games like Hide and Seek.When the game was over—when it was finally safe to come out of hiding—we’d call it out to anyone still tucked away in the shadows.It meant: The chasing’s done. You’re not in trouble. You can come out now.…
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Submission is earned
Submission is earned; it is neither coerced or manipulated. And to be meaningful for Me, it must come from a woman whom I unreservedly revere and admire. The greater her will, intellect, artistic ability, grace, kindness and beauty, the greater the reward of earning her submission. To that end, earning the submission of such a…
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