In My Own Words

Grabbin’ Biscuits
Ever heard the saying, “you gotta risk it for the biscuit”?Nobody can quite pin down where it started—some say an old

Embracing the Beauty of Almost
It’s hard to measure almost; cause almost doesn’t count. ~Dray Orion They say close only counts in horseshoes and hand grenades.But

If I Died Last Night
If I died last night… Would you be angry you didn’t call me back?Would you remember the last thing I

Years of Experience
We’ve all seen shitty drivers, right? Of course, we have.They should have passed a test for their license, they know

The Plug
I’m the plug. For every demon I ever tried to outrun. I quit running. Now I keep them fed. They

The Importance of Words: The Power of Asking
Let’s be clear about something: Dominants are not mind readers. We don’t have a crystal ball that tells us exactly

You Thought I would Break
You thought I would break, didn’t you?You saw the cracks and mistook them for weakness.But I wasn’t cracking—I was expanding.Stretching

Tide of Ruin
It’s five in the morning,and the air is sharp, like the edge of My blade before the first cut.I’m awake,thinking

Effort: My Unexpected Fetish
Effort isn’t sexy because it looks good on paper.It’s sexy because it’s the blood, the grit, the truth. We all know the game—the

Rules for Beginning Dominants: No Bullshit Allowed
Finding your footing as a Dominant isn’t a walk in the park. I’ve seen too many well-meaning people crash and

No Mask, No Games
BDSM isn’t about pretending—it’s about revealing.We live in a world that rewards masks. Where people curate personalities like outfits, swapping

You’ve Got to Feel Me
I often say I’m an open book—but the truth is, some of the chapters are written in braille.So if you

I Did the Damn Thing
After more than a year of writing, rewriting, overthinking, cussing at Word docs, doubting myself, and then finally deciding to

Ollie Ollie Oxen Free
“Ollie Ollie Oxen Free.” It’s something we used to yell as kids during games like Hide and Seek.When the game

Standing on Business
A public service announcement for anyone still waiting on applause. I clap for myself. Because I know what I stand
Leave the light on
Beneath the canvas of the velvety night, our love unfolds, a symphony of delight. Leave the light on, a beacon
Submission is earned
Submission is earned; it is neither coerced or manipulated. And to be meaningful for Me, it must come from a
Herbal Harmony
In a hazy world where dreams take flight, amidst the stars and the velvet night, there’s a plant that offers
Soldier
There’s a hundred years of tradition and a hundred years before that. All gathered in the knowledge going on beneath